Thanks so much! another person who really understands this story. I am thrilled by your comment because I think this is probably one of the five or ten best things I've ever written in my life, in any form - and, though it hasn't gotten much notice, there *are* a few people who really get it. You're one of them.

Based on this and your comment on my essay, I think I'd be happy if you friended me. Go right ahead, and thanks for your responses. To have such an alert and appreciative reader is all a writer can hope for!